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	<title>Comments on: Four clients I avoid, and two I love</title>
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	<description>Small Biz. Big Buzz. by Monica O&#039;Brien</description>
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		<title>By: mrggfep</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1678</link>
		<dc:creator>mrggfep</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 16:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My outlook is a bit different... I have the luxury of declining clients whom I do not wish to work with.  And I do not value money more than my happiness, so I have no problem walking away... I almost had to yesterday as a matter of fact.  If I am put in a position to work in a hostile enviornment I expect to be compensated for the extra stress.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My outlook is a bit different&#8230; I have the luxury of declining clients whom I do not wish to work with.  And I do not value money more than my happiness, so I have no problem walking away&#8230; I almost had to yesterday as a matter of fact.  If I am put in a position to work in a hostile enviornment I expect to be compensated for the extra stress.</p>
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		<title>By: monicaobrien</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1677</link>
		<dc:creator>monicaobrien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 16:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So interesting. I&#039;ll have to think about that one for a little while.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So interesting. I&#39;ll have to think about that one for a little while.</p>
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		<title>By: mrggfep</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1576</link>
		<dc:creator>mrggfep</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 15:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My outlook is a bit different... I have the luxury of declining clients whom I do not wish to work with.  And I do not value money more than my happiness, so I have no problem walking away... I almost had to yesterday as a matter of fact.  If I am put in a position to work in a hostile enviornment I expect to be compensated for the extra stress.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My outlook is a bit different&#8230; I have the luxury of declining clients whom I do not wish to work with.  And I do not value money more than my happiness, so I have no problem walking away&#8230; I almost had to yesterday as a matter of fact.  If I am put in a position to work in a hostile enviornment I expect to be compensated for the extra stress.</p>
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		<title>By: monicaobrien</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1575</link>
		<dc:creator>monicaobrien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 15:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So interesting. I&#039;ll have to think about that one for a little while.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So interesting. I&#39;ll have to think about that one for a little while.</p>
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		<title>By: mrggfep</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1541</link>
		<dc:creator>mrggfep</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 12:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I certainly do charge difficult clients more.  There is a difference  &lt;br&gt;in the client who is not convinced that they need help and the clients  &lt;br&gt;who are nasty and disrespectful when you attempt to help.  If you  &lt;br&gt;politely express your concerns we are all good... But if you show your  &lt;br&gt;bad side and ask for help later I am going to have to make you pay,  &lt;br&gt;that is if the fee was not negotiated in advance.  Every company has  &lt;br&gt;rewards for good customers so I have an anti-reward for bad  &lt;br&gt;customers....and yeah I know I just made up a word.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I certainly do charge difficult clients more.  There is a difference  <br />in the client who is not convinced that they need help and the clients  <br />who are nasty and disrespectful when you attempt to help.  If you  <br />politely express your concerns we are all good&#8230; But if you show your  <br />bad side and ask for help later I am going to have to make you pay,  <br />that is if the fee was not negotiated in advance.  Every company has  <br />rewards for good customers so I have an anti-reward for bad  <br />customers&#8230;.and yeah I know I just made up a word.</p>
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		<title>By: monicaobrien</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1540</link>
		<dc:creator>monicaobrien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 03:40:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve gotten that a few times too. It is strange to me. Because I always research the company and figure out what they *are* doing, and then give them what they aren&#039;t and should be.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;IMO, if you know you should be doing something and aren&#039;t doing it, it&#039;s not the consultant&#039;s fault they are reiterating or confirming that, yes indeed that would improve your business. As a consultant, I find that part of my job is teaching people how to do the things they should be doing faster, or telling them who they should hire, or helping them get fit what they should be doing into a workflow. It&#039;s a challenge, but one I love.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks for the comment! I am curious whether you are joking about the &quot;attitude adjustment fees&quot; or if you really do write (and charge) for that ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;ve gotten that a few times too. It is strange to me. Because I always research the company and figure out what they *are* doing, and then give them what they aren&#39;t and should be.</p>
<p>IMO, if you know you should be doing something and aren&#39;t doing it, it&#39;s not the consultant&#39;s fault they are reiterating or confirming that, yes indeed that would improve your business. As a consultant, I find that part of my job is teaching people how to do the things they should be doing faster, or telling them who they should hire, or helping them get fit what they should be doing into a workflow. It&#39;s a challenge, but one I love.</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment! I am curious whether you are joking about the &#8220;attitude adjustment fees&#8221; or if you really do write (and charge) for that <img src='http://blog.monicaobrien.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: monicaobrien</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1539</link>
		<dc:creator>monicaobrien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 03:36:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s true. Just in my own experience, I&#039;ve found that because it&#039;s a recession, people with full-time positions open feel they have a significant advantage over job seekers. So for now, they just really don&#039;t want to hire anyone that they can&#039;t control. I often get the impression from companies that I should be happy that they are offering me anything, when my own approach as a consultant is &quot;let&#039;s find the right fit, and form a partnership.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I think it&#039;s so weird (and unfortunate) how companies have shifted their mindset due to the recession.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#39;s true. Just in my own experience, I&#39;ve found that because it&#39;s a recession, people with full-time positions open feel they have a significant advantage over job seekers. So for now, they just really don&#39;t want to hire anyone that they can&#39;t control. I often get the impression from companies that I should be happy that they are offering me anything, when my own approach as a consultant is &#8220;let&#39;s find the right fit, and form a partnership.&#8221;</p>
<p>I think it&#39;s so weird (and unfortunate) how companies have shifted their mindset due to the recession.</p>
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		<title>By: mrggfep</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1529</link>
		<dc:creator>mrggfep</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 15:35:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the hostile &quot; You are not telling me anything I don&#039;t already know&quot; client or the client who denies that you have identified any material issues.... Why do I like these guys??? because when they contact me months later for help... my fees include &quot;attitude adjustment fees&quot; LoL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the hostile &#8221; You are not telling me anything I don&#39;t already know&#8221; client or the client who denies that you have identified any material issues&#8230;. Why do I like these guys??? because when they contact me months later for help&#8230; my fees include &#8220;attitude adjustment fees&#8221; LoL</p>
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		<title>By: Generation-Y startup &#187; 7 Blogs I always read and why I read them.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Generation-Y startup &#187; 7 Blogs I always read and why I read them.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 14:39:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Everytime I read Twenty Set, I leave that lunch table with something new. There was a time I read a particular post of hers and it inspired me to write one on here. It turned out to be one of the most read posts I [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Everytime I read Twenty Set, I leave that lunch table with something new. There was a time I read a particular post of hers and it inspired me to write one on here. It turned out to be one of the most read posts I [...]</p>
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		<title>By: monicaobrien</title>
		<link>http://blog.monicaobrien.com/4-clients-i-avoid-and-2-i-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1499</link>
		<dc:creator>monicaobrien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 17:51:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great advice. Thanks so much! I will definitely be taking it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great advice. Thanks so much! I will definitely be taking it.</p>
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